The Power of "Yet": Turning Dead Ends into Possibilities

When we have left the abuser and we want to create a new life for ourselves, it's not uncommon to encounter obstacles that seem insurmountable. These can range from personal doubts to external circumstances that block our paths. Phrases like "I have no money," "I'm not smart enough," or "I can't do this" become familiar refrains in our minds. However, the simple addition of a single word—"yet"—can transform these statements from declarations of defeat into expressions of potential and hope.

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Rediscovering Curiosity: The Key to Knowing Yourself

The biggest stumbling block to creating and living a new, bold, unapologetic chapter after abuse is you have become a stranger to yourself! You have spent all your energy appeasing, supporting, and acquiesing to the abuser simply to keep the peace or keep the abuser from hurting you or keep the abuser from leaving, etc. And now you are free from the abuser and feel lost - who are you? what do you want? what are your passions? Moving on and creating an amazing life for yourself begins when you embrace curiosity!

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10 Characteristics of an Unapologetic Woman

Women face an incredible number of demands every day. The demands can be "title-related": moms - feeding, bathing, cleaning, studying; career - deadlines, pressure, balance home and work; partner - spending quality time, date nights, sex - you get the picture. What is missing is the simple title of "woman" and her wants, needs and desires. They are at the bottom of her very long list.

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